Identity

Be a rebel with a cause

Have you ever considered yourself to be a rebel? Probably not. I’m guessing you’re the kind of person who respects your parents, listens to your teachers (most of the time),

You didn’t mess up

Dear Lauren, As you lie under the covers in your bed, constantly replaying those unkind words in your head, stop crying and listen, if only just for a moment, to

Ugh…Facebook comparisons

Deep down, where I didn’t want to admit it, a little part of me felt hurt. I’d posted some big news on Facebook, but the “likes” and comments weren’t piling

Fearless individuality (Part 2)

Audio only Expressing confidence without being overbearing, seeing the good in unexpected places, and understanding that not everyone has it all ‘figured out’—these are some of the items Ginny Luedeman

Fearless individuality (Part 1)

Why am I so ugly?

Dear Jenny, You try to avoid mirrors, but instead, you feel drawn to them. Hard red bumps loom inevitably into view. Awful acne. You stare in dismay, wondering why you’re

LET your light shine

Once I got involved with a project I just didn’t “get.” It seemed flaky, plus I was put off by a key team member. I tried to be pleasant, but

Look deeper

Dear Joni, Remember that day? Nancy Gabor’s improvisation class in NYC: paired with a gorgeous model for a mirror exercise. The last thing you wanted to do was look him